Hi guys! This is going to be a short blog. I have a work meeting this morning and I didn’t get to take a ton of notes during the show last night because Molly wanted to cluster feed during the show. But I still want to weigh on on yesterdays episode!
I’ll get to Luke at the end, but I just wanted to say a few quick things about the other guys.
Robby – I love that he calls her Joelle. She feels safe in her relationship with him, which she said herself is something she’s always wanted. But is that enough? I think we sometimes tend to go for the relationship that scares us and keeps us guessing – which is her relationship with Jordan. I’m not saying that’s the right way to choose someone to spend the rest of your life with, but it certainly seems to be a pattern for many people. Including myself at one point in my life.
Jordan – Jojo has been the most into Jordan since the beginning, but every time she is with him she asks him to make her believe that he loves her. She’s constantly questioning his feelings. I really wonder why? He says similar things to her that the other guys say, but she believes the other guys and not Jordan. At first I thought it was because she sensed something was “off” with him, but now I wonder if it because she is totally madly in love with him. He already has her heart and I feel like maybe she feels like she isn’t in control with him. Whereas she is in control with her relationships with the other guys. But in the end, isn’t loving someone completely trusting them with your heart and being venerable? I hope she finds comfort in being vulnerable to Jordan instead of fear.
Chase – I think Jojo knew she was going to send him home before she gave him the fantasy suite card, but I don’t think she knew she’d send him home IN the fantasy suite. It was pretty obvious to me that her feelings were way stronger for Jordan and Robby. She did the right thing sending him home when she did. And I like that she is honest about the fact that she has no idea what she’s doing or how to handle being the Bachelorette. I mean does anybody? There is no instruction manual or self help book for this. But maybe I should write one. Ha! Cause there totally should be one because it’s HARD! And I just have to say that I think Chase handled it just fine by walking away. He had every right to be upset with her even though I truly believe that she didn’t mean to blindside him. That said, I think him coming back to apologize was his way of trying to look good so he could become the Bachelor. I just didn’t buy that he wanted to come back to apologize when she is the one who broke his heart RIGHT after he told her he loved her. It’s too weird that he got over everything so quickly after being SO mad and then came back to tell her how great she was. That my friends, was his plea to be the next Bachelor. But should he be? Tell me what you think in the comments below.
My vote for the next Bachelor? LUKE!!!! He is an all American boy that women absolutely love! And his goodbye to Jojo had me, and the rest of America, in tears! The way he said “I”m sorry” to her before getting in the limo made me want to cry! She broke his heart and he still felt bad for her because he hated seeing her cry. He’s a true gentleman and I am totally #teamluke for the next Bachelor! If he wants the gig, it’s certainly his. I have a bunch of girlfriends that will be the first in line to sign up for the show if he decides to do it.
Well that’s all I’ve got for today! Men Tell All tonight! Chad is sure to be entertaining and terrifying I’m sure. I’ll be watching with you guys!
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